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Friday, 3 April 2020

The Wife

The wife.

Its high time.Better late than never.
Mother is getting older.You wont stay young till eternity.These are the times to enjoy.
Reasons enough to get married.Valid or not was still not in consideration.

Marriage,its a hot cup of tea,served with utmost care,love,blah blah.

In the above sentence,the only word that struck me was 'served'!

who served whom.most of the time,the wife served the husband.why? Because thats how it has been,thats what my mother did,thats how it should be,thats how..........the reasons carry on..☺

A wife precisely means a servant who wont be paid.She would be assigned chores and bear kids..(this bearing kid business has more to do with sex rather than the cherub).She has to smile constantly, and wear everything that turns him on..right from the smile to the right kinda ug's!!
There is no 'Her world'.She has to fit in or rather squeeze herself into His world..He wouldnt bother to resize 'His world' in order to allow another soul but the darned one will push herself ..well she has to..Damn!!she is married.

It was not meant to be so menacing but it turned out to be.There are numerous occasions when she burns her existence but goes unnoticed only to be burnt some more,...some other day.Even after giving all..she goes hungry for love..true love.The moment she feels it..even for a minute moment..she choses to lay aside all her fears.She wraps herself in fancied comfort and moves on...

The wife,is a human foremost.She has a heart that weeps while the mouth twitches into a smile.Her person cribs to be wanted and respected as much.But,only some.Only some go that deep.Only some gravitate into the skin of the woman and feel the scratches,the cuts ,the bruises,the wounds,the humilations in the soul.

Marriage is indeed a hot cup of tea but not served by one to another..its done in a kitchen,together,for each other!!All life:)